I'm working at living each moment for what it is....not what I wish it was.....or what it could be.....but just what it is. Not reacting emotionally to what I face....just taking everything as it comes....learning whatever lesson each event has for me.....although sometimes that isn't apparent right away....and when it isn't, then I school myself to watch for it. If I truly believe all things happen for a reason and everything has its season, then to put my expectations on people or events is to try and control what will be. What a responsibility! The key is to trust......to trust God.....to trust myself.